Think about giving not getting .
If someone is falling behind in life you don’t have to remind them.
Believe me they already know ….
If someone is unhealthy , they know
If someone struggle with relationships, self image , money they already know .
What you need to do for those who are struggling is not to reprimand , but encourage.
Tell them what is good about their lives , show them potential in their lives .
Compliment and make them feel good.